I have been in a serious relationship for 4 years with a guy I love dearly. However, recently, while talking, he started talking about him having sex with a guy. I thought he was totally kidding around but it soon turned serious and I got scared. He says he wants to experiment with a man and he wants me to be part of it. I love this guy but I dont think I can accept this. He says it might be fun and if he enjoys it he wants to continue doing it. I've never seen him like the kind of guy to be bisexual. He's always been a manly man. I love him so much but I think this is going to damage our relationship. Please help me, should I continue this relationship?
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