I have been married for just over 2 months. We have known each other and dated for years. When he asked me to marry him I was shocked and said yes because I thought I always wanted this. But during the engagement, the honeymoon, and now our marriage I feel unhappy and at times I don't want to be married to him. Sex also has been painful and not fun for me. We were both virgins when we married. I wonder if that may be a part of it, but don't know. I want your advice. Do you think that I don't love him, or do you think we've just been together so long that things are calm and not exciting anymore for me? Sometimes I think how much fun it would be to date and be single again. But I love my husband, even if I'm unsure if I'm IN-LOVE with him. I feel miserable all the time. Can you help?
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