Low Self-EsteemSun, Sep 26th 1999
I'm 31 and was molested by my father. The first memory was 3 till age 11. Now because of this I feel I have a problem with sex. I'm almost like a nympho. I know it's my way of getting attention but how do I change this about myself so that someone could love me for me and not sex? I need self-confidence in my self, I know, but how do I get that? The only time I have that is when I'm thin and pretty and lots of people want me of course in a sexual way. I need help, my relationships never work out. It's all my fault because I've cheated and afterwards feel sluty. I do it anyway. I portray my self as a slut cause I've done some wild things and I'm very ashamed now of it all. Please help me get better. How do I really love myself and others (so as) not to hurt them. Am I this way because of my awful childhood? I have so many questions HELP ME PLEASE!
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